Wednesday, March 24, 2010

Relational Easter Eggs

A few weeks ago I had an idea.  I thought about putting on a neighborhood Easter egg hunt.  Then, like a good mother hen, I sat on that idea and expected something to hatch.  Or I hoped I'd forget about the fact that this good idea was there...and then I did something that I do, often.  I opened my big mouth.

Once a week I meet with this amazing group of women (Actually, lets be honest real quick.  It isn't usually once a week...but we try!).  We get together, talk about what we are learning through God's Word, discuss the happenings of our lives, the people we are in relations with, and the missions Christ has sent us into within our communities.  This group has changed me.  I've learned that by loving people, Jesus didn't mean to get everyone you can to come to church.  Don't get me wrong, I love my church, and my church family.  However, there's so much more.   It's truly loving, truly engaging, truly living in the opportunities of now.  But often times it does require a lot of verbs.

So this week at our get-together, I simply shared that I had this idea of planning this Easter egg hunt.  My girlfriend Lauren says, "I think that sounds great!  Get on it!".  Thanks, mouth!  Sooo...here I am, making phone calls, buying hundreds of Easter eggs, and trying to figure out how this is supposed to look.  But more importantly ,why I even want to do it.

I live in an area where there are a lot of young families like mine, and also a lot of single parents.  So I have a hard time not wanting to get to know these people in my own neighborhood.  But how do you get to know them in a non-awkward way?  I'm hoping it can start with a few hundred Easter eggs!

I'm already running into a few hang-ups though.  After calling the manager of our development, she informed me that I am not allowed to post flyers on doors, or even go door to door.  But said it would be ok to hang a flyer on the side of the massive multi-mailbox thingies.  Not cool.  I can't even remember the last time I looked at the side of those things to look at a flyer.  Actually, I usually don't even go to the mailbox, my kids do. So now what?  A good idea was mentioned that I could just go down my main street and talk to them about it, and ask them to invite their friends and so on...and just see who shows up?

Next, I don't really feel like just making a big thing that people show up to, do their thing, then leave.  I want everyone to have the opportunity to get involved if they have the ability to.  I would love others to donate eggs, candy, help hide, etc.  The funny thing is though, all the research I've done about egg hunts (yes, there's LOTS of ideas out there) is all about how to just get people in and out.  So I guess I'm gonna have to just try and see!

So why blog about this?  Not because I think I have a great idea....shoot, it could still totally crumble in a million pieces.  But that I was inspired by my friends around me to take hold of an opportunity to love those I am living in community with.  Even if I become friends with just one person out of it, I think it will all be worth it. 

Do you have an opportunity to love those you are living in community with? I'd love to hear ideas or things you may have done. 

Jamie

8 comments:

  1. Let me know what you need help with! We're at bit down the road, but we'd love to help :-)

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  2. I'm trying to put together a swap party for the ladies in my community... I don't think anyone is coming. Its hard to get people excited about stuff/see the value in hanging out and being together. I fantasize about the 1950s where all the people just hung out and their kids all played together and no one had fences or big back yards to hide in! I guess that is why people spend hours on facebook. The truth is that we miss out on real community when we spend hours in a virtual one. I'm so pumped you have a blog now!!

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  3. Thanks for the great practical reminder!! I hope it goes well, what a great way to minister to the neighborhood.

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  4. Meaghan...want to help me fill eggs???? =)

    So true Rach...I kinda wish we all saw the fact that life would be so much more ENJOYABLE if we quit being so "our family" focused...and instead had like huge parties with tons of friends and neighbors all the time! Oh how sweet it would be!

    And thanks Jamie! I am hoping it still goes well too.

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  5. Sure! I have some time Saturday morning... Becca's going to watch J & M for a little while so I can have a break- What a great sister :-) Did you hear Mark got sent to Pasco for work and won't be back until next Wed/Thurs? We're doing okay and hoping to go visit him.

    Anyway, let me know!

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  6. hey hey! I am hosting an Egg Hunt at my parents' house (their yard is bigger than ours) with my MOPs group...it started out just being intended for our group, but now I have been mentioning it to any mom in our neighborhood, that I see walking by, or moving in, or at the park, etc. who has kids that might enjoy it. I am getting a HUGE response!! I think just in the last day another 5 families are coming. It is almost as if people are just waiting to be asked!
    Hope your's works out as well!!!

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  7. That's great Ann! How are you getting all your supplies? The eggs are cheap, but man, that candy is $$$!

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  8. we aren't overloading the eggs with candy...I did things like tootsie rolls, laffy taffy, etc. I put 2 things in an egg and called it good, every once in a while I would stuff an egg to capacity-- just for the suprise element, but those were few and far between.

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